Thursday, June 15, 2006

Blocked and Tackled

Block and Tackle is an interesting game played in university fests. It is a slightly different version of the normal debate, with the topics being a little lighter. Here, you don't have two people, one rooting for the motion, and the other ranting against it. A single person gets a topic, and for 3 minutes he starts speaking on it. His initial choice may be for or against the motion, but he has to keep it throughout.

Suppose a speaker starts speaking against reservations. This is his block position. He will continue speaking against reservations, until the judge calls out "Tackle", where he switches sides and starts speaking FOR reservations. Again when he is tackling it, if the judge calls out "Block", he switches back to his original stand, against reservations. Much fun comes when the speaker changes his stand when judges call out "Block" instead of "Tackle".

The winner is the one who had spoken on varied points, made their stands clear, and switched sides seamlessly. And did not switch sides, when judges called "Tackle" when they were already tackling the motion.

Shweta Jha was a clear winner. At our yearly fest, PESCO, she was an external candidate, who came along with Sudarshan Avadhany, from VVCE, Mysore. I had never seen anyone play B&T so seamlessly. It was obvious that a lot of effort and practise had gone into it. Her debates were something which I never missed, during the fest. Being busy with stage events like Dumbcharades and Mad-Ads, I never got a chance to congratulate her that evening, though I was in the front row, cheering at her every successful switch. Applauding at every relevant point she made in the debate.

I never knew her personally, but used to hear about her from friends. During the little I saw her on stage, she came across as a bubbly vivacious girl, with a ringing infectious laughter. She would laugh at every little mistake she or her teammate made, and the joy on her face was radiant. After PESCO, I heard a lot about her through Datta and Naveen (both VVCE) about her activities and wins in other tournaments, and VVCE's own fest, Vidyut.

It came as no surprise to me that she had carried across her enthusiasm to the workplace as well. Her colleague, Uppu Prasanna, remembers her as a, intelligent and a cheerful gal who took part in all group activities which involved making a lot of noise. A typical, fun-loving gal, who wanted to make the most of life.

Before fate blocked and tackled her life tragically.

On 10th of June, after hectic weeks of coding and stuff, Shweta and her colleagues went on a project party to Sivanasamudra, where, while playing in the water, she slipped on some rocks, and disappeared forever. By the time her colleagues recovered from the shock, it was too late.

When Naveen (ECE, PESCE, 2004) told me about this yesterday, we were silent for a long time. The mail he sent further mentioned that the body was found next day, badly mutilated due to all the rocks and debris it hit on its course. Prasanna, who wrote the stuff, further warns us, in such outing we hardly think of anything else but the moment. Before you enjoy like there's no tomorrow, do spare a thought for your parents, and the people who care for you. What will happen to them in case anything happens to YOU.

Like any other kid, Shweta's parents too had dreams and aspirations for her, they had a picture of their daughter's lively future. Her friends are inconsolable, and are yet to come out of the shock that encompasses them. It is hard for me to believe that the infectious laughter has been silenced forever. When it affects me, who saw her on stage for a couple of days, to this extent, I shudder to think of those who knew her better, as a close friend, as a classmate, as a colleague, as a relative...

Shweta Jha, Rest in Peace. May your ringing laughter illuminate your heavenly abode.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sad.

R.I.P

Anonymous said...

That's really sad. I too lost a friend in a somewhat similar fashion, and it's very hard to believe that she's gone, even after so many years.

ano

Khushi said...

sheesh!
So uncertain...

Anonymous said...

Oh God... I din know it was Shwetha jha, when you ver talkin bout d incident.
The surname suddenly struck a chord. Did come across her twice during TechNIEks. Was abetted to win any of the debate like events she participated in.

May here soul R.I.P

Anonymous said...

I didnt know shweta. Once this tragedy happened and a colleague of me told me about her.. i suddenly and naturally felt very bad and surprised that such a thing could happen to such a young and promising girl ( as described by my colleague ; she knew her farly well) . . .since that day I have heard a lot more about shweta and from so many of my different colleagues who knew her well.. have read almost all her blogs she wrote ( just typing shweta jha in google gives up so many of her thoughts in the first five results) .. I began i out of curiosity but now it has become alsmost as if I knew her and thus saddened by the incidents.. my heart goes out to her family members.. if we as unrelated people feel so much for the vivacious character that she was, it is shuddering to rememeber that what a gap in he family members lives would have been created...may her soul rest in peace..

the-think said...

My prayers for her and hers...

Life just ought to be more fair.

Viky said...

Thanks, all of you guys, for having prayed for her.

It is always the brightest stars that shine brilliantly. And we can only look in awe and respect at their brilliance.

Anonymous said...

Hi all of you,
Its her dad.
Nice that you have her sweet memories.
The hard truth is before us, difficult to be consoled. The laugter from our residency that signalled her presence, is missing. sadly for ever.
May God be kind to all such bright personaities.
May God prevent any such loss.

Viky said...

Hello Mr.Jha,
Please accept my deepest condolences on the sad news. I shudder to think of what has befallen you, for if it affects a person like me so much, who had met her only once, it rends my heart to think how hard it maight be on you.

Please don't think I am pressing on a healing wound, but your daughter was a real gem. Her infectious laughter, her intelligence, her attitude was exemplary.

We pray the Almighty to give you strength to overcome this, and to rest her soul in eternal peace.